Why You’re Waking Up at 3 A.M. — And What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You
- emilytillsrd
- 2 hours ago
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by Erica F. Perusse, MS
If you’ve ever jolted awake around 3 a.m., heart pounding, mind racing, and wondering why it happens every single night, our team wants you to hear this clearly.
You are not alone
You are not doing anything wrong
Your body is not betraying you
It is exhausting. You fall asleep, hoping for rest, and then your brain flips on at the exact moment you should be getting deep, restorative sleep. You lie there, frustrated and helpless, feeling like your body is working against you.
Many women who come to our team during perimenopause or high-stress seasons share this exact experience. This is real, physiological, and fixable.
What’s Really Happening: Waking up at 3 a.m. and The Dawn Effect
Your body naturally experiences a rise in blood sugar and cortisol in the early morning hours. When blood sugar hasn’t been supported during the day or when hormones are shifting, that early-morning rise can feel abrupt and wake you instead of letting you sleep through it.
This is the classic 3 a.m. wake-up and it is not your fault. It is your body signaling that it needs support and it responds beautifully to small, intentional changes in nutrition and routine.
Sleep and Food: Why They’re Connected
Disrupted sleep doesn’t just steal rest. It changes the way your brain reacts to food. Research shows that even one night of limited sleep makes your brain respond more strongly to high-flavor, high-reward foods.
Participants weren’t necessarily hungrier, but their brains leaned toward “this looks good right now” while their decision-making centers were dulled.
The takeaway is that sleep is not just rest. It is a tool to help your body and mind feel steady. When you prioritize consistent, quality sleep, it becomes easier to approach food with awareness instead of reacting purely on impulse.
Small Shifts That Change Sleep
Our team has guided countless clients through this pattern. For example:
Lori was convinced she would never sleep through the night again.
Rachel woke up at the exact same time every night, exhausted and frustrated.
Erin believed she had to accept her anxious, restless nights as her new. normal.
Within a few weeks of adjusting protein timing, supporting dinner with balance, and stabilizing daytime meals, all three began sleeping through the night. Not because they tried harder, but because their bodies finally had what they needed
These shifts happen consistently with our clients and they can happen for you too!
You Still Have Time to Join Us
This month, our team is running a client-only Consistent Bedtime Challenge. It is a 14-day gentle, supportive program designed to help you reset your sleep rhythm with small, realistic steps that fit real life. Each day includes:
A daily intention to guide your evening and bedtime routine.
A simple action to calm your nervous system and support your hormones.
A nutrition tip to stabilize blood sugar, reduce night waking, and support restful sleep.
We are also hosting this month’s Coffee Talk, where our team will explore:
Why perimenopause disrupts sleep.
What the dawn effect actually means.
How small, consistent nutrition and bedtime habits can restore your rhythm
If you’ve been lying awake frustrated, exhausted, or worried about another sleepless night, know that you can still join us.
If Lori reclaimed her nights, if Rachel found calm again, and if Erin started truly resting, you can too!
Our NWE team would be honored to support you every step of the way! Set up your free call with us today here!